How to interact with chick successfully when going on adult dates
Interacting with members of the opposite sex during adult dates should be gravy. It should be icing on the cake, right? I mean, after all, you’ve put all these time, effort, and energy trying to hook up with women online and get their numbers. You put in all this effort talking to them and setting up a sex date. Surely, interacting with them on the way to the motel so you can do the deed is the least of your worries.
Unfortunately, this is where most guys stumble and fall. The truth is you have to interact with females the right way at all stages of the process. It’s all about paying attention to what you say, think, and do before, during, and after the sex act. Otherwise, you are not playing the adult dating game to win. Let’s face it. Most guys who go on adult dates fail. Why? They simply don’t know how to act. They think that it’s all about just getting pussy. Well, that’s just part of the equation. You see, the pussy part is the easiest part.
For the female to even show up, the pussy is guaranteed. She’s there for action. She wants your dick. Now questions asked, case closed. The problem is your attitude. If your attitude says that this is happening and this chick really wants to bone me, guess what? You’re going to drop the ball. You’re going to look like the insecure person that you are. You’re going to turn her off. She’s looking for somebody’s confident. She’s looking for somebody who knows what he’s doing. Unfortunately, being uncomfortable and lacking confidence is going to send the wrong signals.
Do you see where I’m coming from here? This is why it’s really important to pay attention to what you’re thinking, saying, and doing when you’re out on adult dates. Otherwise, you’re just going to drop the ball. You’re just going to make a fool out of yourself. These are some tips to make sure that you do things the right way.
It’s all about being comfortable
By being comfortable, I’m not talking about just you being comfortable. That should go without saying. You should also make an effort to make her comfortable. You have to remember that while she agreed to have sex with you even though she doesn’t know your name, this doesn’t mean that you are in the clear. This doesn’t mean that that’s a done deal. No, it isn’t a done deal. You have to take it all the way. This means that you have to give her the experience that she is looking for.
For this to happen, she has to be comfortable? How do you make people comfortable? Crack jokes. Smile a lot. Don’t cross your arms. Don’t frown. Pay attention to their needs. Look at them in the eye. Give them drinks. Do you see where I’m coming from? Step into their shoes. Be more interested in her needs than your needs. That’s how you make other people comfortable.
Be confident
Dude, the fact that you have this woman in front of you ready to fuck means you did something right. Allow yourself to feel go about that fact. Unfortunately, so many guys are such complete sad sacks of shit that they can’t even get around to feel confident when trying to find an adult date on adultdate.org. They think, "Well since I just downloaded this mobile app and this chick showed up, it’s because of the app." No dude! It’s still because of you. You have to put in the profile. You had to put in the work. Give yourself some credit.
Sure, a lot of women may have laughed at you because you look like Quasimodo from the Hunchback of Notre Dame in high school. Maybe women laugh at you because you don’t have a job. You don’t have money, but fuck that! Allow yourself to feel good about what you have to offer. Obviously, you have something going on because that chick has decided to go on adult dates with you.
Feel good about that fact and let it reflect in how you think, talk, and act. Yu have to remember that women are drawn to confidence like moths to a flame. By the same logic, they are repelled by any kind of insecurity. They hate guys who are insecure, they hate guys who had to require women to take the lead. They don’t have time for that bullshit. You may look like James Dean and you may have a cut body and be very muscular and have tons of money in your bank, but I’m telling you, no American, chick is going to ride on your cock because let’s face it, you don’t have what it takes because you’re insecure.
Get over whatever past trauma that destroyed your confidence and just allow yourself to be confidence about the things that you have going right.